Seek first to understand, then to be understood

My second track in Maiden Castle Memories was Sound of Silence written by Paul Simon. “People talking without speaking, People hearing without listening…” I liked those lyrics in 1964 but it wasn’t until 2017 when I discovered NLP that I believe I truly found their meaning. The music and the raw power of the message enabled me to bridge the …

How you feel is how you perform

I’ve just finished reading ‘The Reading List’ by Sara Nisha Adams and my next job now is to get it added to the book recommendation page on my new Barnhill Consulting website. I’m going to do that for two reasons: One, I loved the book and its heart-warming message on the importance of regular reading and of pushing yourself to …

“I have a dream”

Recently I wrote about my recollections of a Beatles track dating back to 1963. This week I want to refer to that year again, specifically 28 August of that year. As you may know, that date is the anniversary of the amazing “I have a dream” speech, by Martin Luther King, the Civil Rights activist.    The speech is highly …